5 Confidence Moves Every Woman Can Make
Girl, you have got to build unshakable confidence! The motto I live by is: Elevated Living, Unshakable Confidence. A few months ago I had a heart-to-heart with myself in the mirror, and I realized I was talking a big game… but feeling a little shaky underneath. So I decided it was time to walk the walk, no more playing games! I realized I needed to lean into the confidence moves I’ve been talking about and actually live them.
In this video (linked below), I break down 5 powerful confidence-building habits that changed my mindset — and can change yours, too.
My Confidence Journey & Why It Matters
Growing up in a small town outside of Charleston as avplus size brown skin girl, then graduating from Spelman College, and building my career in communications and now shifting into the influencer life — all of that taught me this: confidence isn’t a one-and-done milestone. It’s a practice.
So many of us feel like we should already have it, or we’re waiting for someone else to validate us (a brand, a partner, an audience). But the truth? The power to feel confident lies within us — and that’s what I want to share with you today.
5 Key Takeaways from the Video
Here’s what you’ll get out of the video — and how you can apply it today:
- Affirm yourself daily – Start with “I am” statements. For example: “I am worthy of luxury.” Or “I am enough.” These aren’t just words; they shift what you believe about yourself. Your words build your world.
- Curate your social media feed – Unfollow things that drain your spirit. Follow and engage with content that uplift you, that remind you who you are and where you’re headed.
- Take pride in your appearance – When you show up for yourself (whether makeup, outfit, or skincare), you’re sending a note to yourself: I matter. It doesn’t need to be extravagant — just intentional. Look good, feel good, do good!
- Protect your mind – Tune out the negative self-talk, the “I can’t because…” and replace it with “What if I can?” Journal, meditate, pray — pick what works for you.
- Invest in elevated experiences – Whether it’s a stay at a luxury hotel, a spa day, or even investing in your wardrobe — when you elevate your experiences, you reinforce the idea that you deserve them.
How I’m Putting It Into Practice
Since filming this, I’ve committed to creating an intentional confidence building experience per week.
Also, I’m redesigning my blog and social presence around the tagline “Elevated Living, Unshakable Confidence.” That means more intentional visuals, stronger captions, and content that dares you to step up.
And yes — I’m still wearing bold lipstick on days when I don’t feel like it. Have you seen my lip combos for the gym feautured on my TikTok?
Because showing up as if you already are confident often leads you into the confidence.
Your Next Step + Giveaway CTA
Now it’s your turn. Pick one of those five habits above and apply it this week.
Then comment below the video with: “I’m doing habit #___ and here’s how I’ll do it.”
Check out my latest Youtube video about Romanticizing Your Life.
